• Margot Robbie@lemmy.world
    1001·
    11 months ago

    You heard it here, if anyone is attracted to hot blonde women such as myself, they are now gay, which means as members of the gay community, they have to support LGBTQ+ rights now.

    Sorry, I don’t make the rules.

  • ExfilBravo@lemmy.world
    804·
    11 months ago

    “I like women that look like I can intimidate and beat them easily because I’m not really a man” - Guys that say they don’t like muscular women

    • insomniac_lemon@kbin.social
      32·
      11 months ago

      I can see not being attracted to a muscular aesthetic (though I do I think the image here is a bit silly). I say that as a loser who’d let a jacked woman beat me to death with a waffle maker.

      • Alto@kbin.social
        11·
        11 months ago

        Yeah, it’s perfectly fine if that’s not your cup of tea, as long as you extend the same courtesy to everyone else

        • insomniac_lemon@kbin.social
          1·
          11 months ago

          If you mean liking a certain look (identity or attraction), obviously.

          If you mean personally, I will admit that I am not a cup of tea but luckily as a shut-in that is something that has never been relevant to a real scenario.

      • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
        5·
        11 months ago

        There’s a huge difference between going out of your way to announce that that’s not your type and just it not being your type. It’s similar to the difference between guys posting “no fat chicks” vs the ones who just turn down larger women and only say so when asked about it.

    • Zorque@kbin.social
      22·
      11 months ago

      Guys that denigrate muscular women for their physique

      Not being into a particular body type isn’t a bad thing. Looking down on someone for it is.

    • shalafi@lemmy.worldEnglish
      18·
      11 months ago

      Ex-friend was much like that. Really tall dude, liked tiny, subservient women. One time him and his wife were over.

      “I don’t allow her to wear makeup or cut her hair.”

      Right in front of us all. For real. (She eventually escaped!)

      And yes, I hung out with such a man. Typical, young right-winger, full of rage that the world he had seen and been promised, his grandad’s world, his dad’s world, was taken from him by “the others”.

      I was slowly turning him around. And it was working! Pussed out, gave up on him. Still feel bad about it. I might have saved him but for my lack of patience and moral courage.

      • lad@programming.dev
        12·
        11 months ago

        I was slowly turning him around. And it was working! Pussed out, gave up on him. Still feel bad about it. I might have saved him but for my lack of patience and moral courage.

        Don’t blame yourself, it really takes a lot of energy and it’s not like you’re obligated to do that anyway. Besides, it could’ve never work 100% thus putting you in a kind of co-dependent relationship. Good for you to abandon toxic environment, I think.

      • Echo Dot@feddit.uk
        9·
        11 months ago

        Typical, young right-winger, full of rage that the world he had seen and been promised, his grandad’s world, his dad’s world, was taken from him by “the others”.

        Oh is that what their problem is I’ve always wondered what their issue was.

        The thing is though both my grandfather and my father worked in coal mines. My grandfather in particular had all sorts of breathing problems and back problems because of this. I never wanted to live in their world. Those idiots have a rose tinted version of a world that never was, they have no idea what it is that they’re pining after.

      • feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world
        3·
        11 months ago

        I’m tall and muscular and like tiny women, but I also let them bully and emotionally abuse me. I don’t know what that says about me.

    • 21Cabbage@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
      4·
      11 months ago

      I mean, I like them a touch chubby but even with that all my girlfriends could’ve beat my ass if they wanted to.

    • theneverfox@pawb.socialEnglish
      2·
      11 months ago

      “there’s nothing hotter than a girl who could beat the shit out of you” -my high school wrestling coach

      I see it.

  • Barack_Embalmer@lemmy.world
    581·
    11 months ago

    Why is gatekeeping straightness even such an interesting topic people fixate over so much? Contrapoints “Are Traps Gay?” video provided some quite compelling answers to that question FWIW.

    The universe started from a mysterious dot, we’re apes in clothes, and one day we will all be dust. It seems weird af to devote so much energy to worrying about the rules of which genitals interlock with which.

    • dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com
      31·
      11 months ago

      Anyone who, unsolicitedly, provides some kind of blanket statement about what is and isn’t gay from a position of assumed authority, is gay as hell and in denial.

    • trustnoone@lemmy.sdf.org
      2·
      11 months ago

      I’ve heard it comes from WW2, there was big push of segrating women and men to push the ideal “if you’re a man you’ll fight for your country to protect your girl/mum back home”. (Yes even though many of them were just kids).

      Hence why many came home with severe trauma clinging onto the ideal of “Im a guy, I must do this” and being pushed to “show no emotion and no other guy is allowed to” training from the military that got passed onto their male children.

      Leading to the 90s to view LGBT quite negatively particularly in some media in things people would say.

    • Rakonat@lemmy.worldEnglish
      24·
      11 months ago

      Real talk, traps are gay. But there is nothing wrong with that so chase what ever makes you happy (and is mutually consensual.)

  • PauloPelle@lemmy.world
    44·
    11 months ago

    Fellas is it gay to be attracted to a pretty blonde with an effeminate face, thick as fuck thighs and a big arse?

  • IndiBrony@lemmy.worldEnglish
    412·
    11 months ago

    Guy is scared she’d pop his head with her thighs like a watermelon. Or that she’d crush his wimpy little dick with her ass-cheeks.

    Or most likely he’s scared that she can lift more than him. Maybe he’s intimidated by a woman who could bench press his ass.

    • Echo Dot@feddit.uk
      3·
      11 months ago

      Is been latently gay different to just being normal gay. Does it require the right person to activate it or something? If I stay in the house and don’t get out much it’s possible I’ll never meet them. I may get married have some kids and be perfectly happy and never work out that I’m actually gay.

  • beebarfbadger@lemmy.world
    38·
    11 months ago

    Logically continuing this thought, is it then absolutely straight for a dude to be into the most feminine twinks if being into slightly less-than-average feminine women is apparently gay?

  • SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    34·
    11 months ago

    Considering a youtuber recently got his family doxxed because he made a kinda effeminate video video celebrating him liking women, I’m going to go with what I think is the best response: Yeah man, I’m a guy and I’m gay for women, go deal with that.

      • FeatherConstrictor@sh.itjust.works
        1·
        11 months ago

        I think the person is saying not that it’s insecure men that don’t prefer muscular women, moreso that men that feel insecure when a woman is muscular are the ones that tend to say things like “liking a muscular woman makes you homosexual”

        • Mango@lemmy.world
          11·
          11 months ago

          I’d prefer it if a muscular woman made me hold my breath for a while. 😉