It hits different after your tits get groped in a crowd and the guy just looks at you like he had the right to.
Get treated like a piece of meat* by a couple of men, see that there’s no policing by the other men around, and those hungry looks suddenly are less flattering and more frightening.
(without going through a proper consent and safety process, no shaming free-use here)
Men also get sexually assaulted by women, ofc, and that sucks for them because the default reaction is to laugh at the guy it happened to and to say sth like “I wish that would happen to me”.
I had had some really unpleasant experiences with extremely selfish guys in the sack and had pretty much decided to go full Lesbian Escape Hatch, but one of my friends sent her absolute sweetheart of a boyfriend over to show me what a gentle guy is like and I am giving dating men another try.
If you’re a dude and you wish more women trusted men, when you see your boy grope someone, police his ass right there.
Lots of comments here are “you’re not gonna get kidnapped/raped at the stadium what are you worried about?”
SA can be damaging without it being “legitimate rape” or whatever the fuck people are calling the thing that they feel entitled to go right up to.
It hits different after your tits get groped in a crowd and the guy just looks at you like he had the right to.
Get treated like a piece of meat* by a couple of men, see that there’s no policing by the other men around, and those hungry looks suddenly are less flattering and more frightening.
Men also get sexually assaulted by women, ofc, and that sucks for them because the default reaction is to laugh at the guy it happened to and to say sth like “I wish that would happen to me”.
I had had some really unpleasant experiences with extremely selfish guys in the sack and had pretty much decided to go full Lesbian Escape Hatch, but one of my friends sent her absolute sweetheart of a boyfriend over to show me what a gentle guy is like and I am giving dating men another try.
If you’re a dude and you wish more women trusted men, when you see your boy grope someone, police his ass right there.
Lots of comments here are “you’re not gonna get kidnapped/raped at the stadium what are you worried about?”
SA can be damaging without it being “legitimate rape” or whatever the fuck people are calling the thing that they feel entitled to go right up to.