• vga@sopuli.xyz
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    1 day ago

    finding safe spaces online

    What do you mean by this? How can an online space be safe for a child?

    • Carrot@lemmy.today
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      2 hours ago

      The old canned chat Club Penguin was a safe space for kids on the internet in my youth. Sure, you could have snowballs thrown at you, but since there were canned-chat-only servers, it was a safe space to hang out and make friends, despite not getting to know them very deeply.

      I think it was a pretty solid approach to teaching children how to interact with the internet

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      20 hours ago

      First I think it depends on what we are considering kids. I was online from age 8 but didn’t get into online games or communities until about 10. But in the case of the law, they’re often saying anything below 15, 16 or 18 etc. It depends on the country/jurisdiction.

      There are lots of places kids can find community. When i was a kid I was playing on neopets, club penguin, old school runescape, guild wars. I made friends with people from all over the place. One of my best friends in my youth is from across the continent, and we have been friends for 20 years now.

      I think the bottom line is parents should parent. When I was a kid the PC was in the main room. My parents spoke to me frequently about staying safe online and asked me about what I was doing on the PC. They made sure I was only accessing kid appropriate sites and that I wasn’t getting myself into trouble.

      Could I have gotten in trouble? Yeah possibly. I also could have gotten kidnapped at the local park