• apotheotic (she/her)@beehaw.org
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    1 month ago

    One of the things I was glad to leave behind in transitioning was the masculine obsessive posturing about dick size/dick power/whatever. I’m a top because I’m a top, it has nothing to do with the size or shape of my girlcock, or the size and shape of the girlcock of the girl I’m topping.

    I’ve had it a few times where girls I’ve been flirting with have tried to bring that kind of posturing into the dynamic and I’m just not interested. I’m a 90% top, 80% domme, but whether I feel submissive to someone or allow them to top me does not depend in the fucking slightest on what they have between their legs (unless size is a limiting factor physically).

    If someone tried to compare their girlcock with mine (“is no match for my”) I’d be out of there in a fucking flash. You earn the right to top/dom by making me confident that you will give a shit about my pleasure and wellbeing and safety, not by engaging in a literal dick measuring contest