The guy is getting roasted in the comments too, especially about being unfair to NDs

  • Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    If you are not going to answer unknown numbers, don’t give your number to unknown people.

    This is basic logic. Nothing to do with imaginary “normal telephone interaction behaviors”.

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      3 days ago

      This is insane. Why wouldn’t they leave a voice mail? Why do you expect people to be available at all times?

      For example, what if I’m in the middle of a bike ride when this person calls back? Or driving? In the shower? Taking a dump? In a sensitive conversation? On the phone with someone else?

      This is the whole point of voice mail. There are plenty of reasons people might not answer the phone, even before the “spam call” issue comes into play.

      Your “basic logic” is extremely flawed.

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        2 days ago

        The argument is not about availability. It’s about answering calls from (listening to messages from, calling back to) unknown numbers.

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          No, the original argument was about not even leaving a voice mail, just expecting someone is going to answer their phone every time it rings regardless of the situation.

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          You can’t be possibly this dug in about this, so I have no choice but to believe that you are a troll. A bad one, at that

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              Sure, and if those calls are important, if those callers expect a response, I expect them to leave a message. Giving my number to a potential employer doesn’t mean I must answer every single call I receive on the off chance it’s an employer that’s received my resume, and it’s frankly confusing that you seem to be arguing that.

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                2 days ago

                If you read my responses that is not what I’m arguing. I’m taking issue with the people who don’t answer calls from unknown numbers.

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                  What do you think I think you’re arguing? I’ve read your responses in our thread. It seems like your position is that one must always answer their phone, regardless of whether they recognize the number or not, if they have provided their number to a potential employer. To me that seems like a totally unreasonable position, because

                  1. There are several very valid reasons for not answering your phone outside of not recognizing the number

                  2. Not answering your phone for unrecognized numbers is best practice nowadays, since the amount of spam/scam calls people receive has never been higher

                  3. If a caller wants a response but can’t reach a person with their initial call, leaving a message is the widely accepted next best course of action, as it clarifies to the recipient that even though the call came from an unrecognized number, it’s a legitimate call and a response is expected

                  Again, I’m just baffled that you’re arguing against any of this.

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                    2 days ago

                    Agree with 1. Usually solved by calling the missed call back.

                    Disagree with 2. If that’s your position, don’t hand out your number to potential employers.

                    3 seems reasonable at face value, but I actually haven’t listened to or left a voicemail in 10 years.

                    To placate your obvious irritation I’ll happily accept people not answering unknown numbers if they are not expecting any.