This morning was the 5th consecutive weigh in for ol’ girl >45kg up from 39 so taking it easy until xmas / new year. I was very much unpopular over the last year and a bit lol.
Thankfully relationship b/w ol’ boy / girl / me survived all of that.
If I were to do it all over I should’ve been more aggressive food-wise earlier being honest so bit of a fuck up on my part.
It’s not a fuckup on your part. You’ve been given all of the responsibility and mental load of a caring job that ol’ girl fights against and ol’ boy (or bro) doesn’t assist in.
Some things are too much for any one person. Don’t blame yourself for the outcome when you’re the only person that stepped up.
Made it back down the bellarine.
This morning was the 5th consecutive weigh in for ol’ girl >45kg up from 39 so taking it easy until xmas / new year. I was very much unpopular over the last year and a bit lol.
Thankfully relationship b/w ol’ boy / girl / me survived all of that.
If I were to do it all over I should’ve been more aggressive food-wise earlier being honest so bit of a fuck up on my part.
so some good news
hope it all continues getting better 😘
It’s not a fuckup on your part. You’ve been given all of the responsibility and mental load of a caring job that ol’ girl fights against and ol’ boy (or bro) doesn’t assist in.
Some things are too much for any one person. Don’t blame yourself for the outcome when you’re the only person that stepped up.
We live and learn every day. You’ve done an incredible job of keeping her well despite her resistance to your efforts.