I have never seen this level of coughing without covering the mouth, loud conversations on speakerphone, TikTok video scrolling without headphones, feet on seats, standing near the doors without giving way, etc. anywhere else in the world.

In b4 “get used to it”, “wear noise cancelling headphones”, “it’s a you problem”, “part of living in a big city”, “where have you not seen this elsewhere because it’s just a fact everywhere” and other tragedy of the commons accepting copes.

I’ve lived in several major metros around the world, including in a developing country.

What’s weird is that everyone seems to agree, even though it isn’t against the rules, not to eat on public transit. I don’t even mind that really.

I’ve politely asked a few times that people turn the volume down on tinny speakers, and people have been graceful about it, but I’d like not to have to ask. There was even a person having a full on 30 minute phone conversation in the marked “quiet section” of the local library.

It’s to the point that I cannot ride on public transit without seeing multiple of these things. Every time.

So, my questions:

  1. Why is this seemingly unique to Melbourne?
  2. What can we do to try and stop it?
  3. Why do some people need to have a phone conversation all of the waking hours of the day?

It’s kinda driving me crazy.

Thanks

  • DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone
    1·
    25 minutes ago

    You’ve got 2 options. Try to change the world or try to change yourself. You either talk to these people and ask them not to do these things, or you accept that there will always be annoying people on public transport and find peace and acceptance.

    I’ve spent most of my life in the first camp but am now realising all my policing hasn’t made any long term change.

  • notgold@aussie.zoneEnglish
    3·
    4 hours ago
    1. Don’t find it unique, it’s prevalent in many cities. Melbourne CBD just has it to an excessive level.
    2. Tell them you don’t like it. Ask the parents to shut up their kids. Teach your own children to be more polite and respectful on public transport & in general.
    3. I wish I knew why. My daughter was on a 3 hour call organising outfits yesterday. At least she put the call on her headphones while we were in the market.

    I think there is a fear of upsetting children so rarely parents are told that their children’s behaviour is disrespectful and disruptive. PT is for all not just the bogan’s.

  • SkaraBrae@lemmy.worldEnglish
    2·
    5 hours ago

    I’d tell you to get a car and drive yourself, but the entitlement on Melbourne roads is worse that what you describe on PT.