Oh and also

I don’t think there’s a need to rank one as worse than the other

And then literally one comment later

Of course it makes sense to classify some as worse than others

Goalposts moving more than the ball here. If you can’t be fucked to engage with my points honestly, then just say that, instead of this intellectually dishonest goal post moving you keep doing.

But I think in individual cases the “i thought you were gay” can be just as bad, so I do think it’s entirely comparable.

Literally. Verbatim. Who do you think you’re kidding here dude ?