Not entirely sure what you’re asking, like if others’ perception of me threatens my identity or something? It’s not that big of a deal. Discomfort, not distress or outrage.
To be clear, the issue I have is using this as a shit test, not that people might label me wrong. It’s going to happen, it’s just not comfortable. But treating reacting with discomfort as if it implies hatred is just going to start a conflict where there wasn’t one and increase division in a time when we really don’t need more things dividing us.
What does the implied perception have to do with your own wants?
Not entirely sure what you’re asking, like if others’ perception of me threatens my identity or something? It’s not that big of a deal. Discomfort, not distress or outrage.
To be clear, the issue I have is using this as a shit test, not that people might label me wrong. It’s going to happen, it’s just not comfortable. But treating reacting with discomfort as if it implies hatred is just going to start a conflict where there wasn’t one and increase division in a time when we really don’t need more things dividing us.