There’s more to it than that, being gay 30 years ago was enough to ruin your career - even if there wasn’t any proof. This is where the term “metrosexual” came from in the 2000s. Being gay was so bad that men came up with a word that meant “I’m straight but I like to shower and dress nicely.”
So if you’re a Millennial or older, odds are that you still carry the scars from that stigma to some extent, even if you’re an ally. When I was a kid, calling something gay was the worst you could get without swearing.
There’s more to it than that, being gay 30 years ago was enough to ruin your career - even if there wasn’t any proof. This is where the term “metrosexual” came from in the 2000s. Being gay was so bad that men came up with a word that meant “I’m straight but I like to shower and dress nicely.”
So if you’re a Millennial or older, odds are that you still carry the scars from that stigma to some extent, even if you’re an ally. When I was a kid, calling something gay was the worst you could get without swearing.