• PugJesus@piefed.socialOPM
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      4 days ago

      Hey, I grew up in that era too, so I get habits are hard to break, but going forward, please don’t use that term on here. We’re trying to move past that kind of language.

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          4 days ago

          idiot works, but I’ve become fond of dum-dum over the last year;

          it seems more cutesy, but somehow manages to be even more insulting without the usual negative associations…at least i don’t know of any ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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          4 days ago

          Idiot or moron would be fine.

          It’s only the r-term specifically that’s verboten. It’s been used extensively in recent times as a term of genuine abuse towards legitimately developmentally disabled (or sometimes just neurodiverse) folks.

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            3 days ago

            Euphemism treadmills are silly. Moron and idiot are just as bad. Retard was invented because people were using moron as a slur.