• Squished Fly (she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    9 hours ago

    I somehow managed to be in a sort of omnisexual relationship with my ex.

    I’m a trans girl, full in her transition (legal name change and everything) and suspected born inter. My ex was a trans girl early in her transition and hadn’t had her legal name and gender changed.

    • for transphobes (my dad), we where in a gay relationship
    • for the government, we where in a straight relationship
    • for outsiders / regulars, we where in a lesbian relationship
    • in actuality, we where in a aroace relationship where gender just didn’t play a role at all

    We somehow managed to represent every single letter in LGBTQIA