• gigachad@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    We love cooking together but it usually means she cuts an onion very very slowly and tells me a story, while I cut the rest and cook the food. But we still love it both spending time together this way.

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      Honestly that’s basically all I ever wanted when I’d ask my ex to come cook with me…

      I then started saying “can you just come hang out with me at least? You don’t have to do anything, just hang out. I don’t even like cooking and doing it by myself while you watch TV isn’t really fun to me…”

      Ex for a reason, but that’s all I ever wanted as well. Cooking used to be a social activity. It still should be.