This particular headache happened awhile ago, I’m much better at the vetting process nowadays then I used to be.

Basically remembering to mention that I’m bi before activities happen.

EDITED to add alt text (I’ve only done this a few times (in particular for art I’ve done) so I’m not too good at it with memes)

  • kartoffelsaft@programming.devEnglish
    22·
    2 days ago

    I swear, a lot of gay dudes just don’t have “bisexual” in their vocabulary. Like they don’t stop to think that maybe “hey, any straight guys around here like the thought of making another man cum?” reads like “hey bachelors, hows the wife doin?” to anyone who knows what words mean?

    Like, I can get there being some fetishization/roleplay around “converting” a straight guy gay. But that’s never the angle. They just use the word straight like they know everyone on earth wants to suck their dick.

    • turdcollector69@lemmy.worldEnglish
      7·
      1 day ago

      There’s crazy pressure to conform.

      It really is like: “If you can’t be straight then be gay but you can never ever cross the lines or be ambiguous.”

      It’s such a stupid and self-limiting way of thinking