• AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      I’m not sure it’s really spooning if she can’t bend at the hips because the end of my back is far below them and basically at the height of her knees. Not sure having to lay down completely straight is a comfortable position lol

      I suppose a short girl could spoon me traditionally if she wants to be facing my lower back but that’s not really what I want either

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        It’s called jetpacking

        What I do it put my knees fully into their knees and wrap my torso around their butt, arms around their waist/low chest. I only reach half way up their back (I’m smol) but they love having my head rest against the middle of their back.

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        When I spoon my partner, we match hips and my face is somewhere between their shoulder blades

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          Okay I can’t say I wouldn’t like but I guess I really just wish someone much larger than me would cuddle with me so that I could feel small I guess or like protected? Idk it’s hard to explain