• NothingButBits@lemmygrad.ml
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    I kinda like Christmas, even though I’m an atheist. I just don’t understand why some people go crazy about New Year’s though.

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    Christmas just feels like souless capitalistic consumerism. My relationship with it is pretty complicated due to growing up in poverty and how it has shaped my feelings on getting things. I don’t think it’s overrated though, i just think people think more people liek christmas than they do cause saying you don’t like christmas in public is socially unacceptable. A good amount of people hate christmas cause they find it very stressful.

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    I love the aesthetics and ambiance of Christmas. Warm colorful lights and decorations. The festive feeling and using reefs and such to bring color to an otherwise horribly gray and depressing season.

    I HATE all the obsession with gift giving and shopping and buying. Basically, the way capitalism wormed its way into it.

    Essentially, I like all the parts of Christmas that were basically stolen from other religions. I hate the aspects from Christianity, which were the easiest to use to inject capitalism into it (presents).

    I think it should just be about bringing warmth and color to an otherwise cold and drab season. Where I’m from, there’s more deciduous trees than coniferous so all the trees loose their leaves. The sky is most overcast. With nothing but bare, dead looking trees and overcast sky, everything becomes gray and depressing. Due to the angle of the sun it’s like, daytime is “perpetually 10 am untill all of a sudden it’s 3pm. Then you get off work and by the time you are home it’s night.”

    Christmas lights and such combat that drab depression. I just wish the holiday was more about JUST being with friends and family and bringing some cheer and warmth. Instead of all the shopping and “literally kill someone for the last TV on black Friday” type shit. Fuck presents. It’s too much of a focus when it SHOULD be like, a minor side thing. Little fun stuff not the main focus.

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        Right? Like “We just exchanged piles of money but instead of picking out something myself you had to figure out what I might want and then get me that?”
        Like most of the time now it turns into “just send the family your Amazon wish list of shit you want to get yourself but feel guilty spending money on.”

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      I love the aesthetics and ambiance of Christmas. Warm colorful lights and decorations. The festive feeling and using reefs and such to bring color to an otherwise horribly gray and depressing season.

      My city in the past few years started leaving lights up in the main park through February. Like they’d take down the Jesus/Santa stuff after the 25th, but leave the basic light strings up. Their reasoning is to keep a festive atmosphere during the drab winter.

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    I work in a grocery store, so I’m assaulted by Christmas music for a whole month straight. That already puts me at odds with the season, and add into that seasonal depression and not being remotely Christian, Christmas just means less than nothing to me, really.

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      so I’m assaulted by Christmas music for a whole month straight.

      I’m ready to murder someone after just one evening. o7 to your fortitute.

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    Are there any good holidays in the U.S?

    It all seems like the same day of consumption with a different outfit on depending on the time of year

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      This is true to some extent but some (Easter, St. Patrick’s Day, Thanksgiving) have less of a consumer culture around them than others (4th of July, Christmas, Halloween).

      Fittingly the biggest holiday without any real consumer culture around it is Labor Day. The worst you’ll get is marketing for Labor Day sales but that’s pretty tame by U.S. standards.

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    Aesthetically it feels weird in the southern hemisphere, with all the fake snow and fireplaces while it’s blazing hot.

    But coming from a catholic upbringing it was a great moment to be forced to interact with all them relatives at least once a year. Nowadays I don’t celebrate it much, so it’s just a holiday for me.

    I can understand hating it, though. It’s a social convention forced upon all of us with no regard for us actually enjoying it. You can’t easily “opt-out” of Christmas if it’s important to people who are important to you.

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    I’m conflicted about Christmas.

    I love the idea of Christmas, that is a midwinter festival that involves community, family, food, and colourful lights to brighten up those long December nights. I love that it has the power to bring people together even in the darkest of times (I learned about the Christmas truce of WW1 at a very impressionable age). I love giving someone a thoughtful gift and seeing them light up with joy. I’m even a sucker for going to church and singing Christmas hymns and reading the story of Christ’s birth even though I’m not religious.

    I detest that it is an orgy of consumerism. I detest that it’s just another empty vessel to sell crap. I detest that for two months there’s never ending pressure to buy this or that, the advertising pressure that it’s not Christmas without buying a bunch of garbage that nobody cares about.

    I still come out on the side of loving Christmas but it’s in spite of its modern incarnation, not because of it. I absolutely understand people who hate Christmas, it’s been hollowed out and transformed into just another capitalist festival of consumption

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      Some retail businesses make almost all of their sales in the Christmas season. With how harsh the long recession has been, I think this year is going to be especially pushy and consumeristic and despite all that advertising the money is just not there to buy. One big sigh and waste

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    I feel like Christmas just drags on forever. There are so many celebrations that I can’t miss without upsetting someone.

    Multiple family celebrations with family members that get close to a panic attack when something isn’t perfect.

    Mandatory fun times at the company.

    Friends inviting to get-togethers that I would like to join but often not have the time or energy left and saying no and making excuses is draining too.

    All of that during flu season.

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    I LOVE Christmas. Growing up, my family used to spend the week at my grandparents’ farm. All my aunts and uncles would make the trip, and it was the only time of year I’d get to see all my cousins. The farm itself was in the rural northern prairies so it was like something out of a storybook with all the snow and festivities. We’d see the northern lights almost every year, and it was remote enough that we could hear them. We are a musical family so we’d sing lots of carols. I’ve got a fondness for the religious ones. I’ve always thought they had a haunting, ethereal quality to them when compared to the secular ones. The only downside was that I don’t like Anglo Canadian food that much. I’d have to live off mashed potatoes and cookies until we got home and I could return to my usual diet of curry lol

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      This was discussed just the other day in a different forum I follow. lol. Halloween is like, the ONE thing I would say was worth keeping from America. Because it’s just fun. Dressing up in costumes and having parties and such. There’s really no age range that can’t enjoy that. I LOVE dressing up and giving out candy.