• testfactor@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      I don’t think, “you don’t understand, she wasn’t grieving the way women are supposed to grieve, and she was dressed like a slut,” is exactly the defense you seem to think it is…

      There’s not a “right” way to grieve. And someone isn’t “wrong” because they process trauma differently than you would. And none of that is an excuse for slut shaming.

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        3 days ago

        By not selling merch and sending out spam begging for money in exchange for “personal messages” that aren’t personal at all.