Ok. First and foremost, experiment with your gender, get people around you to refer to you by the pronouns you think you want, verify if you would feel comfortable with a different body (if you’re mtf then get silicone fake boobs, try bra, try panties and so on). You cannot be faking, nobody who is faking has that question. But you can be unsure, you can understand yourself differently and so on. Also, if you’re being influenced by trans media you consume, what in that media is attracting you to it?
As for the: I’m doing it for attention thing. You’re not doing it for attention, nobody wants the attention of being a minority who could get killed in the streets for just existing. So yeah, don’t buy into transmed bullshit, and just experiment for yourself. If you’re happy being trans, good, if you aren’t then you aren’t and that’s also good.
Ok. First and foremost, experiment with your gender, get people around you to refer to you by the pronouns you think you want, verify if you would feel comfortable with a different body (if you’re mtf then get silicone fake boobs, try bra, try panties and so on). You cannot be faking, nobody who is faking has that question. But you can be unsure, you can understand yourself differently and so on. Also, if you’re being influenced by trans media you consume, what in that media is attracting you to it?
As for the: I’m doing it for attention thing. You’re not doing it for attention, nobody wants the attention of being a minority who could get killed in the streets for just existing. So yeah, don’t buy into transmed bullshit, and just experiment for yourself. If you’re happy being trans, good, if you aren’t then you aren’t and that’s also good.