I’m scared of the process of having to potentially relearn how my body will want to have sex post-hrt. I’m 26 and I only just recently have felt very sexually free and confident after a few negative experiences in the past. I’m scared that my skills and interests won’t apply and I’ll have to start over. What can you tell me about the trans sexual experience during your hrt journey but not bottom surgery related.

Also because of health reasons I’m not a big anal gal.

Cross posting this on Reddit cause they sadly weren’t helpful at all. Thanks so much for your time 🩷

  • CombatWombat1212@lemmy.mlOPEnglish
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    11 days ago

    I guess that’s my worry is as a lesbian I still want to be with women and it worries me to take penetration off the table since it’s all I know right now and it is very fun.

    Thank you so much for your input this is all really helpful

    • theresa (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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      11 days ago

      You’re welcome! If penetration is what you’re worried about, strap-ons exist. I know it’s not the same and have honestly never tried them but maybe it scratches the same itch. And also I think viagra still works when you’re on HRT, so you’re probably good and don’t need to worry about it :)

    • Amnesigenic@lemmy.mlEnglish
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      10 days ago

      As the other commenter mentioned viagra/cialis absolutely does work while on HRT, and can be combined with pumps and/or rings to easily continue engaging in traditional penetrative sex if you want to. I’ve had great results with this device that combines both, it’s surprisingly easy to use