• stinerman@midwest.social
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    1 day ago

    One part “I live in an area of the country where owning a car is a necessity” and one part “I need people to think I’m successful.”

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      With a giant dollop of “the car is part of my identity.” It’s how Americans conceptualize themselves in society. That’s why we have emotional-support pickup trucks, “Jeep people,” every first-generation Asian citizen has a Honda Accord, minivans symbolize emasculation, et cetera. Honestly, sometimes I think that the mental image of “person” in the American mind has four wheels.

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        22 hours ago

        I drive a white 2012 Ford Fiesta. It is a “woman’s car.” I bought it off my sister for $2500 a year ago. It is easy to maintain and gets good gas mileage. I give no fucks what people think of me driving in that car.

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      19 hours ago

      Many people spend all the money they would use to build real wealth on displays of wealth, cars being at the top of that list. The way to build wealth is to not spend money and instead to invest it… at least until you hit probably 8 digits where it becomes easy to live off the wealth your wealth generates without eroding your principal. However, most people are nowhere near that and would gladly take a 7 year 9% interest rate loan on a $90,000 truck so their neighbors will think they have money.

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        I occasionally drive past a place that is some type of “wealth boot camp”. I guess you give them money and they tell you how to make money?

        Point is, every time I pass it there are multiple identical model Mercedes parked out front and all I can think is “I don’t think you’re doing this right”

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        22 hours ago

        In my small hometown there are truly people with trucks that cost more than their house appraises for.