this isn’t about you. This actually frustrates me because it’s people who can’t understand having an opinion they can never understand and minimizing it

This is some real shit, and it’s very frustrating. But have you considered:

as a normal sexualitied normal gendered person (yes I’m very woke, thank you), I feel attacked and you are a bigot. You should be just a fun background thing I never have to think about, but you’re telling me I can’t do something. That makes you worse than Hitler. You’re the same as the last bad guy I thought about! In fact I’m going to get a swastika tattooed over my entire body just because of how mean and bad you are!