I’ve been a sad slug today. No walk, no pull downs. Trying to at least do some chores to not fall behind.
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It feels like any time I try to join a new group there are invariably adult cliques, and there’s no way to stick up for myself against bitchy people without becoming the focus of escalating drama. And it’s like do I try to adjust or just leave? It’s really isolating and discouraging.
Yeah, it’s lovely here. It just seems like nice groups are like hens teeth and can be ruined by even one jerk.
I had a nice group irl but it required me to come home through my area after dark and it’s not safe to do that anymore. (The Ubers would be too expensive.)
I’ve been a sad slug today. No walk, no pull downs. Trying to at least do some chores to not fall behind.
spoiler
It feels like any time I try to join a new group there are invariably adult cliques, and there’s no way to stick up for myself against bitchy people without becoming the focus of escalating drama. And it’s like do I try to adjust or just leave? It’s really isolating and discouraging.
choose nice groups , just like you choose to be here :)
Yeah, it’s lovely here. It just seems like nice groups are like hens teeth and can be ruined by even one jerk.
I had a nice group irl but it required me to come home through my area after dark and it’s not safe to do that anymore. (The Ubers would be too expensive.)