• jjagaimo@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    Is it really pedantry if the phrase makes no sense with the incorrect order

    Its like “I could care less” - so you do care? Start making sense and I’ll understand you. Words have meaning god damn it.

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      11 hours ago

      Idioms don’t have to make literal sense. How do you feel about being “head over heels” about someone?

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      If a phrase conveys the opposite of their literal meaning, and the speaker and the audience both know it, then it is pedantic. Choosing to derail whatever the topic is in favor of criticizing someone’s understandability when everyone did understand them is pedantic.

      I get it, I hate the way people use “literally”. It’s terrible, it’s usually unneeded, and it just makes any actual correct use of literally have less impact. But I’m not gonna correct people who say it wrong, because I do know what they meant.

      If they said “I could care less” and you’re comfortable enough in your understanding of the conversation to know for a fact they actually mean they do not care about it, then they did make sense and you did understand them.

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        If they said “I could care less” and you’re comfortable enough in your understanding of the conversation to know for a fact they actually mean they do not care about it

        And what if I am not comfortable enough in my understanding? When someone is hard to understand because of how non-standard their use of language is, it is a communication barrier, not just pedantry.

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      1 day ago

      It’s not like that at all. “I could care less” is just wrong. The phrase is “I couldn’t care less.” “I could care less” is more like “one and the same” or “for all intensive purposes.”

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        1 day ago

        have your cake and eat it too

        Alone it sounds normal but doesnt make sense in context because its supposed to be

        eat your cake and have it too

        Because the idiom is supposed to mean that you can’t eat it and somehow still have it. The first implies you got cake and then were unable to eat it which doesnt make sense because thats literally the point of cake

        Wikipedia:

        you cannot enjoy two incompatible things at the same time; once you eat the cake, you no longer have it. It highlights the idea of trade-offs or making choices in life.

        Apparently have is supposed to be synonymous with “keep” but language has evolved

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          It can sound misleading but the second part doesn’t actually mean the “having” at the first part has ended. It’s not incorrect, it’s just more confusing than the other way around.

          I wouldn’t say the language has changed. You either have something or don’t. If you eat your cake you don’t have it anymore

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      Yeah if they cared enough to care less. Therefore they don’t care enough to care less about something.