I’ve gone my whole life (I’m 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I’m not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I’m jealous of the youth, being old sucks.

  • another_being@reddthat.comEnglish
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    2 months ago

    I’m 54 and just starting to explore things. I have known I had bi tendencies since very early. But I’ve never acted on those. After having a loooooong discussion with a transmasculine friend of mine about their experience, I realized my desires were much deeper. Given political climates I certainly hesitate to move forward with any sort of transition now but, at least I have some answers, finally, in my mind and can explore this further — without judging MYSELF. That was the biggest eye-opener for me.