You have to be “my non-binary lesbian niece tells me I am being hateful when I remind gay people that they are sinners and real marriage is between a man and a woman but I don’t hate anyone it’s just what I believe and I feel like the government should force everyone to live by my personal flavor of Christianity’s moral standards even though I really don’t even do that myself” down the panic hole to believe this stuff, at a minimum, based on my experience.