I am a man. I do not know the answer to this question and it’s fucking disturbing.
Edit: I spent 30 more seconds thinking about it and realized that victims who speak are heard, but almost no perpetrator thinks they’re doing anything wrong.
yeah… also male here. i… never really thought about this. if i dont know any rapists, that means i probably do know rapists that i dont know are rapists.
Nah unlikely. Rape is mostly a corruption issue i think, like sex trafficking.
This study of 12600 college students indicates that 87% of rape was committed by serial rapists , and 46% is committed by individuals who have committed 10+ rapes. overall 5% of surveyed students admitted to some form of rape while under the influence of alcohol, but 20% of women and 7% of men report being raped in the past.
The thing about a serial rapist - they must have some means of keeping women from reporting them, or getting away with it repeatably.
These people tend to use dogwhistles and form cliques, and once one gets into a position of power they get all their buddies up too to protect one another.
Letcher county is an example of a ring that got busted open recently. The rural towns judge and deputy and their buddies basically threatened and coerced underage girls and their families into fucking them and attending diddy parties. The sheriff found his daughters number in the judges phone and shot him.
Police do this regularly too in the USA, some places are better than others but the whole brotherhood and solidarity shit is basically their dogwhistle saying ‘we commit crime and cover for eachother.’ The louder they say it the worse they are. So naturally they attract rapists and murderers to join them, and fire out anyone that may blow the whistle on em.
Its the same thing with weinstein, epstein, diddy, in the military, and probably trump with the republican party. A ringleader gets some power, grows their sphere of influence and uses it to gate opportunity or threaten women into sex acts. Rinse and repeat for decades and decades and you get a very small percent of people spreading stds like theyre halloween candies.
And once people are in theres no getting out. Thats why epstein and diddy film everything, blackmail.
You may not know any intimately though, or you might win the people lottery and know them very very well.
The person who posted this is very angry at men, and it’s not that they may not have good reason to be … but they appear to hate men in the manner a racist hates others.
Don’t let this person make you feel bad, keep being a good person AND actually be the kind of person who would shun and call out bad people.
Not much to tell, the guy is in jail pending trial for one count of 2nd degree murder, one count of attempted murder. I believe the ‘reckless use of a firearm’ and related charges are dropped or stayed.
He definitely did it. I spoke with the accused’s then girlfriend, apparently it was a coke deal gone wrong and he had taken his dad’s pistol to the exchange. I did not get a straight answer as to whether it was him attempting to rob them or vice versa.
The humping was pre murder, just a drunken ‘joke’ that didn’t involve any skin contact and lasted only a moment, but now I get to tell people that “hey did you know John got humped by a murderer once?”
It’s really not. If a rapist rapes several women, there’s a 1xN distribution. Then they think they did nothing wrong, so they won’t mention they raped someone, but that they had some fun with someone, if you don’t know them well you might think they meant they had a date which what normal people do.
So, less perpetrators than victims and perpetrators either don’t think they did it or they know and don’t say it. It’s normal for regular men not to know. I’m a man and I know of victims, not perpetrators.
This is the problem with the entire claim. Of course most men don’t know rapists, in the same way that I don’t know most jewel thieves, I assume they don’t admit it to me.
There is one guy who I am highly suspicious of, but I have zero actual evidence other than the fact he’s a really creepy dude. But I can hardly go to the police with that can I. So maybe I know one possible rapist.
I am a man. I do not know the answer to this question and it’s fucking disturbing.
Edit: I spent 30 more seconds thinking about it and realized that victims who speak are heard, but almost no perpetrator thinks they’re doing anything wrong.
yeah… also male here. i… never really thought about this. if i dont know any rapists, that means i probably do know rapists that i dont know are rapists.
well fuck.
Nah unlikely. Rape is mostly a corruption issue i think, like sex trafficking.
This study of 12600 college students indicates that 87% of rape was committed by serial rapists , and 46% is committed by individuals who have committed 10+ rapes. overall 5% of surveyed students admitted to some form of rape while under the influence of alcohol, but 20% of women and 7% of men report being raped in the past.
The thing about a serial rapist - they must have some means of keeping women from reporting them, or getting away with it repeatably.
These people tend to use dogwhistles and form cliques, and once one gets into a position of power they get all their buddies up too to protect one another.
Letcher county is an example of a ring that got busted open recently. The rural towns judge and deputy and their buddies basically threatened and coerced underage girls and their families into fucking them and attending diddy parties. The sheriff found his daughters number in the judges phone and shot him.
Police do this regularly too in the USA, some places are better than others but the whole brotherhood and solidarity shit is basically their dogwhistle saying ‘we commit crime and cover for eachother.’ The louder they say it the worse they are. So naturally they attract rapists and murderers to join them, and fire out anyone that may blow the whistle on em.
Its the same thing with weinstein, epstein, diddy, in the military, and probably trump with the republican party. A ringleader gets some power, grows their sphere of influence and uses it to gate opportunity or threaten women into sex acts. Rinse and repeat for decades and decades and you get a very small percent of people spreading stds like theyre halloween candies.
And once people are in theres no getting out. Thats why epstein and diddy film everything, blackmail.
Military too. Base towns are full of victims and systems that protect rapists. Don’t go to Destin…
You know a lot of criminals.
You likely know a murderer too.
You may not know any intimately though, or you might win the people lottery and know them very very well.
The person who posted this is very angry at men, and it’s not that they may not have good reason to be … but they appear to hate men in the manner a racist hates others.
Don’t let this person make you feel bad, keep being a good person AND actually be the kind of person who would shun and call out bad people.
My brother in law was humped by a murderer at an office party. Office is ~200 people.
I’d like to hear more of this story
Not much to tell, the guy is in jail pending trial for one count of 2nd degree murder, one count of attempted murder. I believe the ‘reckless use of a firearm’ and related charges are dropped or stayed.
He definitely did it. I spoke with the accused’s then girlfriend, apparently it was a coke deal gone wrong and he had taken his dad’s pistol to the exchange. I did not get a straight answer as to whether it was him attempting to rob them or vice versa.
The humping was pre murder, just a drunken ‘joke’ that didn’t involve any skin contact and lasted only a moment, but now I get to tell people that “hey did you know John got humped by a murderer once?”
Taking a gun to a drug deal is generally a bad idea.
John got humped by a murderer sounds like a strange Wes Anderson film
Out of all the men you’ve known, yes you will have known some. But like attracts like so IME they only hang round with other abusers
An awfully roundabout way of calling the person you’re responding to an abuser …
It’s really not. If a rapist rapes several women, there’s a 1xN distribution. Then they think they did nothing wrong, so they won’t mention they raped someone, but that they had some fun with someone, if you don’t know them well you might think they meant they had a date which what normal people do.
So, less perpetrators than victims and perpetrators either don’t think they did it or they know and don’t say it. It’s normal for regular men not to know. I’m a man and I know of victims, not perpetrators.
This is the problem with the entire claim. Of course most men don’t know rapists, in the same way that I don’t know most jewel thieves, I assume they don’t admit it to me.
There is one guy who I am highly suspicious of, but I have zero actual evidence other than the fact he’s a really creepy dude. But I can hardly go to the police with that can I. So maybe I know one possible rapist.
Also male. Any convicted rapist I’ve heard of says it was consensual.
Did you mean convicted? If not I’m not sure how convinced makes sense here.
Dang it!
Thanks for clarifying/correcting, I was genuinely confused.
I’m dyslexic so I don’t see errors. Especially when auto correct is on.
Understandable, I have my own learning difficulties, so I understand. I also grew up with dyslexic people, so I get it.