• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Fair enough. But lgbtqia+?! Can we not see how confusing are arbitrary these words and meanings and acronyms are?

    Imma roll with LGBT. Good enough, covers everyone, at least close enough.

    • DebraBucket@lemmy.world
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      17 hours ago

      My definition is any group that typically was targeted by the slur “queer” in the past would be covered by the queer umbrella. The slur was generally used against minority sexual orientations and gender identities, or in other words any trait or behavior that is not “normal” for heterosexuals or “normal” for man/woman, but isn’t limited to well defined groups. For example, a cisgender heterosexual man who liked to dress in women’s clothing would be considered queer by those who use it as a slur. They are not LGBT, but if they identified as Queer that would make sense to me.

    • killingspark@feddit.org
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      1 day ago

      Lgbtqia+ isn’t any more arbitrary than lgbt if you take the 5 minutes to google what it means.

      Honestly, using queer is probably better than lgbt because that includes the Asexuals and Intersex people, which is what the a and i are representing.

      The terms are getting more and more complicated because we finally allowed people to not be conformant with the norms. So we are in the process of discovering new identities that shouldn’t be unrepresented over the years, which obviously makes talking about this more complex but also allows us to be more accurate.

    • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nz
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      1 day ago

      It’s not hard to learn for people who like learning about the world, is only hard for people who think understanding other people is a burden.