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Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 days ago

Regular fear

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Regular fear

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Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone · 2 days ago
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  • decipher_jeanne@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    At a bar or in the street:

    I don’t want to flirt back, but I am afraid he’ll just keep getting more pushy or forceful. Anyone around can play diversion please?

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      I feel this, it feels dangerous to make a man upset or angry, or even disappointed - so you try to be super nice and polite, but then he just misreads your politeness as interest.

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        Because “no” is not in the vocabulary of so many men it’s honestly a bit terrifying.

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    There is a car behind me, I’m going to drive a little circle around the block to make sure.

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      Ugh. A classmate in university thought it was “fun” to get in his car, go out driving, pick a random car, and then just follow them around until they parked before driving away. A predator in the making, that one was.

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        unhinged, getting a thrill from that

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    I’m only following you home so I know you are safe and don’t have a stalker.

    • Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.comOP
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      Hey infinite! Thanks for swinging by. We are trans inclusive women only so please don’t comment again and have a good evening 🥰

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        My apologies I did not notice the server or community.

        But I definitely want to be inclusive of all people!

        • Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.comOP
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          It’s fine I’m sure we’ll say hi in other communities instead. All the best ❤️

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          What did you possibly say to trigger OP?

          • infinitevalence@discuss.online
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            I dont think it has anything to do with the content, but my lack of reading the sidebar and rules. This is supposed to be a safe space for women & trans, as a CIS man I accidentally “invaded” this space. Its all about respect, and perfectly justified IMO.

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