• lmagitem@lemmy.zip
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    5 hours ago

    So they prefer to be with someone who would cheat at the first occasion but the occasion is hard to find than with someone who has no problem to find an occasion but decides not to?

    I’d rather be disappointed early than wasting years on a scumbag

    • Vreyan31@reddthat.com
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      3 hours ago

      To be fair, this kind of kinetics-as-pevention works.

      I use this strategy to prevent eating too many snacks – I do not keep them at home. I can’t have them if they are not here. If 90% of the time I would “choose” not to have chips, not-having-them stops me the other 10%