• Lemminary@lemmy.world
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    9 days ago

    I’ve never felt insecure about my height, and I do fall at the lowest end of the spectrum. Also one of the few times being gay has been a blessing since men tend to be a lot less fussy about height.

    To me, everyone else’s expectations are the problem. Not me! I literally don’t understand the appeal because it feels like such an arbitrary thing to like, like hair color.

    • porksnort@slrpnk.net
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      8 days ago

      Hear hear. I am average-slim and gay. Being easy to handle by a larger man is basically non-existent-God’s way of making up for all the other difficulties of being queer in a straight world.

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        8 days ago

        Being gay certainly has its perks! For being such an awful sin, the Christian god sure gives a lot of mixed signals.

    • Ultraviolet@lemmy.world
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      8 days ago

      Incels love to blame all their problems on height because it’s the one thing that can’t be their fault.