• Sergio@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    There is indeed “so much to unpack and learn from an exchange like this.” Unfortunately I don’t think she’s going to learn it.

    • shalafi@lemmy.world
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      17 hours ago

      She seems to be asking an honest question. I’m like her husband, never been with a woman like her, but those are fair questions to throw out there.

      • agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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        1 day ago

        Yeah it really seems like her takeaway isn’t “My husband is a loser for not constantly getting certs” but rather “Maybe my drive to get these certs is a symptom of insecurity”.