But our point is that even those who don’t think like that still don’t have it all figured out because of cultural and media messaging, poor education, lack of experience, people not talking shit through and people not understanding themselves, and what they truly want and/or enjoy. Because either they don’t have the language, they find it difficult to consider those options or it’s embarrassing or they aren’t with partners who want to do those things but are either stuck in monogamy or the things they want most people don’t agree to.
Plus, the lack of research, as we think you’re saying in part due to such a basic idea of sexuality and what it’s for certainly isn’t helping.
However, our point was that even in progressive/leftist circles we have a long way to go for many many reasons.
That’s part of the problem, yes.
But our point is that even those who don’t think like that still don’t have it all figured out because of cultural and media messaging, poor education, lack of experience, people not talking shit through and people not understanding themselves, and what they truly want and/or enjoy. Because either they don’t have the language, they find it difficult to consider those options or it’s embarrassing or they aren’t with partners who want to do those things but are either stuck in monogamy or the things they want most people don’t agree to.
Plus, the lack of research, as we think you’re saying in part due to such a basic idea of sexuality and what it’s for certainly isn’t helping.
However, our point was that even in progressive/leftist circles we have a long way to go for many many reasons.