• steeznson@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    This is why I’m adopting if I ever decide with my wife to be parents. Can’t imagine the guilt of my DNA looking me in the eye and asking why “did you make me?”

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        “…and your dad refused to get a vasectomy” which is easy and reversible and quick-recovery

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      I know so many well meaning people who have said exactly this

      Until the pregnancy test. And then they’re like “Let’s fucking DO it! We’ll be parents!!”