• db0@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPM
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    1 day ago

    You’re engaging in victim blaming. It’s not my fault for not being proactive in the way you think is the best for myself when you community behaves like like trolls.

    You are aware of your own compulsions, you are aware of hexbear, you are aware of the impact the post would have and yet you did not do anything until the large amount of hexbear activity began after the post reached the top of the active/all post sort.

    Victim blaming

    When that started you again did not do anything other than individually disengage from users that presented arguments you weren’t prepared to discuss despite the availability of mod tools that would have coped with your compulsion as well as limited the post’s activity.

    Victim blaming and gaslighting.

    I don’t dispute that it’s your space but I do dispute the claim of ableism because you were not targeted or discriminated against for your condition, another neurodiverse person called you out for using your neurodiversity as a shield when you have ample means by which to proactively protect yourself and yet you choose not to use them so that you could have fun riling up Hexbear.

    Ableism doesn’t just mean using the R-word. I explained why it was ableism. You now chose to ignore this completely, which means you’re just covering up for ableism and their admin to boot, which just further reinforces why hexbear has an ableism problem, which is supported by the many ND people who have expressed stress interacting inside hexbear, even ND hexbears themselves.

    You claimed as much regarding your comment about making similar posts about liberals however since .worlders did not come with concrete, evidence based arguments you did not feel the need to use your coping mechanisms.

    So. you clearly were more than capable of going through all my comments to find the little tidbits you think support your bad faith interpretations, but supposedly couldn’t do it to find the many places I called out hexbear ableism. That points out the deliberate manipulation you’re engaging in. To answer you question, I disengage with libs just as much.

    ProfesserOwl is not questioning your neurodiversity or your coping mechanisms they are calling you out for excusing your behavior with your neurodiversity.

    You’re lying. They literally gaslit me and said my coping mechanism are actually a coverup for cowardice. I.e. they’re goarding so that I disregard my coping mechanisms and engage in a mentally harming behaviour. You’re now the 6th hexbear doubling down on ableism.

    Continuing to engage in self-harming behaviors in the name of neurodiversity does an incredible disservice to neurodivergent people.

    Victim blaming

    Sorry I will not further engage with ableists and victim blamers, no matter how polite their bad faith and concern trolling arguments are written.