• Hawk@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    5 days ago

    “Kind of difficult”

    I’m not a native English speaker and I can easily come up with many alternatives that don’t imply the baby was left alone purposely.

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      5 days ago

      I don’t think the original wording implies that at all. This is a meaning OP and others are inferring themselves.

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      5 days ago

      “left” is used all the time where no one was purposely doing anything. It doesn’t imply that at all.

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        5 days ago

        No, it does imply that. Completely and directly. Your obstinance does not make you correct.

        A baby does not have agency of its own. If I ‘left my keys on the counter’, you SHOULD assume someone put them there, because they didn’t fucking climb up there themselves. That’s how reality works, let alone the English language…

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          5 days ago

          My friend’s death from COVID left me saddened.

          So you are saying my friend acted with some agency to make me sad in that sentence? The subject of “left alone” is unspecified but a very normal reading is that just the general situation left the baby alone, or maybe left alone by all of society. It’s a pretty tortured reading to declare that the mother was intended to be the subject to that verb.