“I like you but I don’t think I can deal with this anymore. I really don’t like talking to people and I can’t commit. I’m sorry. I’m not going to break up with you, I just don’t like talking. I like you, but you wear me out.”
But then he still says he loves me and that I’m the only one for him and that no one can take me away from him? i don’t get it?
he hurts me all the time, it’s like the song tainted love says “Sometimes I feel I’ve got to
Run away I’ve got to
Get away
From the pain you drive into the heart of me
The love we share
Seems to go nowhere
And I’ve lost my light
For I toss and turn, I can’t sleep at night” and “i love you though you hurt me so”
thank you so much, I’d break up for that reason but he doesn’t want me to leave
A healthy relationship is a two yes, one no situation. You both have to want to be there and actively choose to be there (yes) for there to be a relationship. You each have your own full agency to choose to leave, and the other person does not get to make your choice for you. Him not wanting you to leave doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to.
thank you, i just don’t wanna hurt him
You make your own decisions, though.
fair enough