“I like you but I don’t think I can deal with this anymore. I really don’t like talking to people and I can’t commit. I’m sorry. I’m not going to break up with you, I just don’t like talking. I like you, but you wear me out.”
But then he still says he loves me and that I’m the only one for him and that no one can take me away from him? i don’t get it?
he hurts me all the time, it’s like the song tainted love says “Sometimes I feel I’ve got to
Run away I’ve got to
Get away
From the pain you drive into the heart of me
The love we share
Seems to go nowhere
And I’ve lost my light
For I toss and turn, I can’t sleep at night” and “i love you though you hurt me so”
Hey viktor,
I’m not sure if he wants to break up or not. It sounds like he might but maybe he’s doing the whole “get them to fight for me thing”? Idk, it’s weird.
Either way it doesn’t really sound like it’s you, i think he may need to work on himself and be happy with himself. That’s not a problem you or anyone else can do for him.
He does say you wear him out and while that may be more reflective of him, id at least give him some space while he sorts stuff out. Maybe call it a break while he figures stuff out, meanwhile don’t feel obligated to wait for him.
we are taking a break now, tysm! he’s very confused right now and i get it