yes, the title is correct and not bait 👍

i (22x) have a friend/acquaintance (25m) who is friends with a 13f irl, but people are calling him a weirdo.

he has no romantic relations with this girl and knows her through her dad (40s, m) but people are still calling him a creep and idk how to help besides saying he isn’t. it’s not like he went out of his way to go “hi im looking for 13 year old girls, wanna be friends?”

i feel really bad for the girl and i hope he doesn’t have any bad feelings or intentions, but i’ve heard from him he’s done nothing but mentor her and tutor her.

(i wasn’t there idk if i can truly believe it, but still)

  • Alice@hilariouschaos.comEnglish
    132·
    4 days ago

    It’s a 13 yo girl dude. A kid. A kid doesn’t know any better. You’re making it sound like the 13 yo is responsible here for the ‘friendship’…

    This is all nos for me. A 25 yo man has no business being ‘friends’ with a little kid like that.

    Are they talking over social media and via text ?

    • Wendy@lemmy.myserv.oneEnglish
      22·
      3 days ago

      You’re making it sound like the 13 yo is responsible here for the ‘friendship’…

      Where do you get that? I don’t see any blame, maybe it’s because I have a hard time reading tone. Though, i completely agree that it’s his fault, especially if he is hurting her.