Good thing most porn bores us and worries us to tears. There is no consent seeking, connection, backstory, or slow burning in most porn, visual, auditory, or even written. We continue searching, but there’s very little that actual cares about these things.
We watched some recently and we were amazed at how bad it really is, how scared or confused the actors were, it’s just… not good.
Edit: In our opinion and experience doing things in real life with other real people (online included) is definitely better.
Oh, what client do you use that won’t show you a bio? We have looked into many and they mostly seem to have that feature even when people have told us they don’t. What happens when you click on my name/image?
Thank you! There’s a lot of hate towards us plural folk around lemmy, so it’s nice to see some celebration instead 🙂
Good thing most porn bores us and worries us to tears. There is no consent seeking, connection, backstory, or slow burning in most porn, visual, auditory, or even written. We continue searching, but there’s very little that actual cares about these things.
We watched some recently and we were amazed at how bad it really is, how scared or confused the actors were, it’s just… not good.
Edit: In our opinion and experience doing things in real life with other real people (online included) is definitely better.
Well, duh.
Not duh, not everybody enjoys that. Which is why we made it clear it was about us.
The way you wrote that definitely looks like it’s supposed to be true in general …
Yeah, but that wasn’t really our intent in the end, and so we tried to clarify that. Guess we did a bad job, heh.
completely unrelated but are you plural? :3
Yes. Our profile on here says as such 🙂
oh, sorry! we’re on mobile n cant see bios ,but hi! nice to see plural ppl in the wild!
Oh, what client do you use that won’t show you a bio? We have looked into many and they mostly seem to have that feature even when people have told us they don’t. What happens when you click on my name/image?
Thank you! There’s a lot of hate towards us plural folk around lemmy, so it’s nice to see some celebration instead 🙂
we use voyager, just took a peek again and it only shows posts and comments and no option to view a profile. we’d love to try out other clients tho!
we haven’t seen any others on lemmy yet and havent seen any hate for it yet but good to know~
Eternity is very good in our experience if you’re looking for a recommendation!
Ah, there’s some plural communities but not many plural groups in it, sadly. Yeah, be glad you haven’t. Those assholes are nasty.
sweet, thanks for the recc!! this reply coming to you straight from eternity! -lily
Heck yeah, thanks for letting us know!