Two days ago, I did an AMA about my current life situation, and I really enjoyed it. I find these super fun for some reason, so I’m back with another one! Same request as last time: please, no judgment or unkind replies. Thank you! 🤍

  • iasmina2007@lemmy.worldOP
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    14 hours ago

    I actually appreciate this reply - it’s critical, but not insensitive or dismissive of my autonomy. Thank you! I recently got my driver’s license, and he bought me a car and an apartment, which I’m currently renting out for passive income. I’ve been saving that income each month. I’ll also be starting dentistry at university this autumn, which I’m really looking forward to. I absolutely want to be independent - I’m definitely not the “trad wife” type. I’m well aware of the risks that come with that lifestyle.

    • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works
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      13 hours ago

      I don’t know if you’re faking this for attention, but if it is real. Stay safe.
      Have a backup plan incase shit hits the fan. Financial dependence on someone can lead to a ton of manipulation when you have the ‘no choice but to put up with it or be homeless’ mentality.