• hansolo@lemm.ee
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    14 hours ago

    Not sure why you’re getting down voted. Porn can absolutely become a behavioral addiction.

    I used to work at a place where we had a lobby guard that watched porn on his phone all day (sound off). Not sitting there trying to jerk it, it was a compulsion. He would just be watching it while talking to other people, standing by the door…it was weird. He eventually got fired because he genuinely couldn’t not watch porn.

    That being said, I’m a huge privacy advocate, and while there are actually ways to anonymously be on a website and verify age, that’s not how anyone is doing it. Things like signing up for an account on a site and scanning your ID are just abysmally stupid. There’s a zero percent chance that this system as is doesnt lead to data theft and possibly even extortion.

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      2 hours ago

      I totally agree. Everybody is misinterpreting what I’m saying into being an advocate for the ways they’re implementing the restrictions. They need a punching bag. I get it. I’ll be it.

      But some people here don’t want to admit porn addiction exists. That’s a sign that it is a problem.

      The problem isn’t just addiction though. The access to and normalization of violent porn to adults and especially children is damaging to society. Maybe people don’t care because it mostly effects women negatively.

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      8 hours ago

      Sounds like a better state-backed initiative would be to make mental health services available to this dude and to anyone else dealing with addiction issues. Especially since I assume this door guard was older than 18 and age verification, no matter how private, would have done nothing to stop his access to porn.

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      13 hours ago

      That being said, I’m a huge privacy advocate, and while there are actually ways to anonymously be on a website and verify age

      How would that work? I’m not well-researched on this particular topic, so I’m curious how that should work.

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        Key signing maybe?

        You get a cert which is cryptographically signed by your government. They can prove its signed with the governments root cert, showing that its someone over 18, but not who.

        That being said the key identifiers will probably still be attached to you in some government db, just not on the porn site.

        Though the government could force the pornsite to hand over any logged ids. Some people would say that’s private, as they trust the government not to do stuff without a judges warrant.

        As a trans woman relying on HIPPA to not be put on a list of those on HRT, lmao yeah fucking right. The christian taliban will connect the dots the first chance they get.

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        13 hours ago

        I don’t think I’ve ever seen a single suggestion of a way to implement age verification that isn’t a privacy nightmare. Oftentimes they literally just want a credit card number, the assumption being that a child would never be able to get hold of such a thing.

        In some of the worst cases they actually want a passport or other government ID sending to some organisation that would verify you. With all the fun potential data breaches that that would ensue.

        Most of the time these rules never get off the ground because privacy advocacy groups basically sue over it and win every time.

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          Tokenization is the easy solution.

          You go onto you state gov website and get a token that just says “this is an adult.” Nothing else. Token lasts 10 minutes.

          Cut and paste into the site. They authenticate without saying who theu are, back to the gov site, “yo, this legit?” State says “looks like something we would do.” State keeps no records of WHO validated the token, just that it was a legit token.

          Same way that routers connect to VPN services.

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            3 hours ago

            How does the state verify that you’re an adult and therefore should have a token?

            This solution simply seems to be kicking the can down the road

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              Not at all, this is well established technology already in use all over the place.

              When countries use digital IDs, they are able to carve out validating individual aspects of an identity. Just address, just over 18, just class of driver’s license, etc.

              So the State has a website/wallet where the user pulls a token from the State, basically a fancy hashed OTP/Login code.

              The website, which can’t derive your identity from the code, sends the code to the state API and can’t ask more than “is this hash legit” and the State API doesnt need to say more than “yup.”

              Where can things go wrong? The State can ask to know who needs the token. Or even demand to know, and log what sites use it. The state can contract this out to a vendor that logs it all, making data theft far more risky.

              It all depends on his the state builds requirements.

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          That’s more or less what I was implying/thinking, there’s not really any good way to implement it. Canada almost ended up implementing it and possibly even going as far as to ban porn, but thankfully Poilievre ended up losing the election including losing his own seat.

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      12 hours ago

      I’d advocate for us to update our ID systems to be able to verify age without the risk of data theft or extortion, but that’s not really relevant to this conversation, just kinda talking to the void