• JeeBaiChow@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Why can’t it just be a guy, simply dressing like a girl, ‘as a joke’? I mean does he have to be ‘curious’?

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      1 year ago

      Guys dressing as girls has been bants forever.

      Really sad that people don’t want us to have that enjoyment anymore. It’s fucking a cultural heritage at this point to have fun dressing as a woman.

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        1 year ago

        The post suggests that there are only two options in the scenario: they are either secretly trans, or they are a bigot trying to belittle and insult trans women. They don’t leave any nuance for a different option. Dare I say that they have a rather binary way of thinking…

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          1 year ago

          Ohhh, you read the “and if” as being exhaustive. If they said “either… or” then I’d be with you, but they just listed 2 possible scenarios.

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            No, I read the “win/win” as listing there only being two possible scenarios. They are saying you either win or you win. “Win/win” reads as “win or win”, so there is your “either… or”, but even then you don’t need to say specific words to be able to imply exclusivity.

            Example:
            “You must be joking, and if not, then you are a fool” Notice how in that sentence I did not use “either/or”, yet I still implied only two possibilities? Well, that sentence is homogenous to the sentence in OP’s post. I just used “if/then” instead of “either/or”.

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              1 year ago

              You said “and if not” which is binary, but “if [predicate] [x] and if [predicate] [y]” is not generally exhaustive.