y’all need to treat age regressed system members with the same delicacy as actual kids.
just because they have some degree of sexually, and inhabit a body over 18, doesn’t mean you should start doing hard kink without asking
Umm…
This isn’t really an age issue. You shouldn’t start doing hard kink with anyone without asking.
Yeah I have to wonder what experiences led OP to post this since it just seems like common decency to ask before doing such a thing.
@MattWalsh @violet_rose honestly i think it’s pretty fuckin obvious what happened.
i mean it was an erp, and i guess the problem was them not understanding the little member had different boundaries and is more fragile.
So, they really should have gotten consent from the different system member, rather than assuming consent received from another would still apply.
What’s “hard” kink? Ain’t kink kink?
“Hard” kinks are the more extreme ones, typically involving more significant levels of violence, suffering, and other usually-noxious stimuli. It’s a bit of a fuzzy line, but just think, ones with a very elevated probability to cause harm if not desired.
i treat age-regressed system members the same way i treat “actual” kids, and i treat “actual” kids the same way i treat adults, because the way i treat people is not based on their age.
