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  • stoy@lemmy.ziptoReddit@lemmy.worldGood advices
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    24 hours ago

    This is interesting, but in general meaningless, as we don’t have the data of what triggered the advice.

    That has probably also changed over the times.

    With the rise of dickheads like Tate influencing more men, and the general awareness of abuse in relationships, I can absolutely se reasons for breaking up increasing.







  • This is honestly quite good advice in general.

    Especially for men who deny themselves crying.

    Sometimes life is tough, giving yourself a good solid cry when you need to is among the best you can do to release tension and start focusing on the task at hand.

    When I moved out from home, and was alone in my apartment for the first time, I broke down crying for a few minutes, then I collected myself and went out and got dinner.



  • T9 may have worked fine for english, but as a Swede, I remember it being shit for compound words like:

    “Slussvaktarbostadshembiträde”

    “järnvägstationskiosk”

    “Diskrimineringsombudsman”

    These are obviously obtuse examples, but all are valid swedish words.






  • Yeah, at the moment I am building a home server running TrueNAS, it is the only backup I will have, but it is far better than having everything on a single HDD in my computer…

    I need the final two HDDs to set up my raid and start using the server.

    I have a question about my raid though.

    Is it better to run it with four data drives, one parity, and one hot spare, or should I run it with four data drives and two parity drives, and no hot spare?

    I am running 8TB Seagate Iron Wolf Pro drives, from (hopefully) separate batches.

    The CPU is an AMD Ryzen 4600G and I have 32GB ram in it.

    I want to add another SATA controller and add two SSDs, one for L2 cache, and one for applications and VMs, as well as add a low profile GPU for transcoding and later a 10G NIC


  • If money was no object, I’d stay here in Sweden, and I would probably buy a farm mannor in need of renovation.

    I’d have the main building carefully renovated to preserve the herritage but modernize it, I imagine the property having a stable or other large old storage barn, I’d gut as much of the interior as possible, keeping the exterior look and build a “man barn”, basically make it an entire man cave, I mean a combined area for hobbies, a small LAN party corner, air rifle sooting range, full racing sim, full flight sim, electronics workbench, a separate room for dirtier hobbies like wood/metal working with separate ventilation, but with a glass wall between the areas, top floor of the barn would jave several guest rooms with a separate external access, I would also dig an underground tunnel between the mannor house and the barn, with a deep cellar for extra storage