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  • guismo@aussie.zonetoPeople Twitter@sh.itjust.worksFriendly Reminder
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    2 days ago

    I think it’s just internet impression.

    Being gay is soooo much easier today. I would say we reached the utopia, because I don’t hide and yet my life doesn’t seem different than straight people.

    The screaming ones one both sides, the “everyone must know I’m gay” and the “no one should be allowed to show they are gay” are the minority, but they sure are loud. And internet is their megaphone.

    But that depends on the country of course. I’m sure gays in Saudi Arabia are not happy.


  • It always annoyed me so much that gay was a personality type like goth or nerd or jock, in US media.

    Yeah. Same. The dream was to just be normal. That liking guys is the same as liking girls. You can be a femboy gay, or a macho yanktank straight, or the other way around. But it’s not anymore simply who you like that catches people attention.

    You can simply be gay, and that is just one detail of your life. Not a whole fight anymore.


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    As an older gay guy, as you grow older, being gay stops being important. You just like guys, and the other guy like girls. That’s it.

    And it’s actually kind of annoying how some people make that their entire personality. But when I left my mom’s house I even hanged porn pictures on my room, to tell everyone what I am and that I wouldn’t hide anymore. So I was the same.

    But over time I realised that I should never have to hide, I didn’t have to keep showing either. I didn’t really want. I just did it because I was angry I had to hide.

    My point is; we are here. Just not that visible.

    Plus we didn’t have internet back then. Thank god. I wouldn’t want to see again the things I would have written.

    Edit, I must also say that it’s because a lot of people fought for our rights. I couldn’t just be a guy who likes guys back then. It’s a luxury I love. I can say stuff like “my partner, he does this or that” and it never becomes “what, are you gay?” anymore. It’s just like a straight guy talking about his female partner most of the times, and that’s awesome. I can choose to make it my personality or not these days without having to hide.


  • It’s just odd. What’s your reason? Why only China? I see you sprinkle some Russia but it’s mostly China. Are you that afraid of them?

    For instance, I hate israel, because it’s an invasion and genocidal and in the last 50 years they probably killed millions. I hate them a lot. And yet I post more varied stuff than you and some other people like you. So what’s the reason?

    It almost look like this state sponsored bullshit your posts talk about, but it’s hard to believe Americans or who knows what would pay someone to post on Lemmy.









  • It’s a vicious cycle when you’re depressed. Internet helps to ignore the horrible life you want to forget, but it also ensures your life stay horrible. I’ve been there. When you’re not on the internet draining your brain you feel much worse.

    Some people use alcohol or drugs instead. I’m just coming out of 4 months like that and I don’t know what I could have done instead, when you just don’t have the will to do anything, not even to kill yourself. Internet doesn’t require any will.





  • It’s kind of a joke. Their behaviour is predatory and in a decent society that would not be allowed.

    I think profit from real estate should be illegal. At the very least from the land you bought. Not sure about what was constructed. But probably not either.

    No one should be allowed to sell a land for more than they paid, considering inflation, etc. No one should be allowed to get land to profit. You may b profit from the use of the land maybe, but NEVER from the land itself, be it renting, selling, whatever. Land is not a product you make. It’s limited and existed before you.



  • I mean you’ll see more people resonating with your opinion there. Here you will be bashed. Potentially with good reasons.

    I believe in supply and demand yes, and I don’t believe real estate follows that. It’s a game and those who know how to play and have better resources win.

    As mentioned here, there is the COVID example. I don’t find your explanation credible. “People” (if I can use the term for those who benefited from the pandemic) didn’t get rich so quickly for your explanation to make sense.

    What I do remember, not what I think, was people complaining everywhere that they couldn’t find workforce. I remember a lot of chaos that happened directly because the immigrants were gone.

    Other than that, I’m not an “investor” and I would never be. So I can’t debate that. I do know that investors (I know quite a few of them) are the cancer of society and their death would directly benefit everyone, probably also solving the real estate issue and I would be able to buy a house since anyone wanting to profit from that would worry about being murdered.

    That’s my personal opinion on the subject. After all investors are killed, then we can start checking if immigrants are a problem and try to solve it. But it’s probably a somewhat radical opinion.