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Cake day: July 12th, 2023

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  • Yes, those things are insulting to the people who belong to that group. There’s an entire style of joke where the setup and punchline is “what are you, ____?” And when the person responds yes, the original speaker is chagrined. Almost like inferring that someone is lesser because they have different capabilities is a shitty thing to do. Who’d’ve guessed?

    But really the only difference between these and slurs is impact. Those groups that are impacted are the ones who decide if they’re slurs.

    Well… not really. It’s the zeitgeist that really decides the difference between the two. Some group gets a little too shitty with using a word as an insult and it can expand into a cultural slur. I mean, that’s how the Euphemism Treadmill operates. Some word is determined to be naughty by the zeitgeist, so the group that was using the naughty word switches to another word, implying it has the same meaning, which just adds another word to the naughty list. Sometimes words that were naughty stop being naughty because people stopped being shitty with them. It’s the way of living languages, railing against it just makes you seem childish at best.

    And I didn’t say shit about “moron”. Keep up, please.



  • This is the issue with arguing because something made you mad rather than understanding what the other person is saying and then responding in a way that makes sense.

    Asshole isn’t a slur. It’s an insult because it compares the target of the insult with something that is dirty and spews only filth.

    A slur is a slur because it compares the target of the insult with a member of a lower caste in society, implying that the target is of the same value as those society has dehumanized. When you use a slur, you reinforce that that caste designation is correct and worthy of scorn. That you think that people are less valuable for belonging to that caste and that that belief is good.

    So, when you use a slur as an insult, it tells those around you that you’re an asshole. But it also tells members of that caste that you think of them as subhuman and, therefore, you’re not safe to be around.

    So, to reiterate my point, you can talk like an asshole if you like, but don’t be shocked when people treat you like one.


  • The sabotage manual is designed to mimic behaviors others do naturally, but to an exaggerated extent.

    Lots of people get promoted due to their relationships with their leaders, but it’s your relationships with your peers that actually makes you qualified. Since the filter doesn’t match the optimal outcome, you get suboptimal results. So, it’s a mostly self-selecting incompetence rather than malice (in most cases).