I have stuff, a job, kids, a wife, and all that and i’m still a miserable loser. Enjoying life is a thing you have to chose to do in spite of your circumstances, rather than because of them.

For further reference, see Elon Musk: the dude literally has it all and i catch myself genuinely feeling sorry for how pathetic he is from time to time, that man couldn’t enjoy life even if he had literally everything

The second sentence concisely prophesies the first. How would you know anyone who has been to jail if you moralistically exclude them from your social circles?

How do you appropriately label that feeling of being happy you are where you are from?