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  • We have the same issues as the US : a vote conservative no matter what, irreductible voterbase.

    The libs, which are terrible just less than cons, won the last election by a dick hair only because Trudeau resigned after seeing the US elections and his reputation amongst canadian.

    I have will be impressed if the cons are not the government next election. We have a taste of what’s to come next for us, and by seeing what is being said in the news and within my community, I expect the worst in 4 years.








  • This is only my experience, so take what follows for what it’s worth (not much).

    I have been in the same situation as your partner (though I had sex with my partner more ofte, but still way less than before medication).

    Simply put, I was ashamed of my low libido and not in a good headspace even with my medication( which was supposed to help).

    I was so ashamed that I didn’t want to initiate sex with my partner. It was not rational, but that is how I felt at the time. And I would sometime watch porn so that I could get the dopamine I would get from sex, without the shame.

    I know it won’t make you feel better, but hopefully you can have a different perspective on how your partner might feel and get, hopefully, a new track to find a solution to your problems.

    Also, there are some medications that can help with libido (Wellbutrin if I remember correctly). Might be worth it for your partner to check with his doctor.



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    I planned my kids and still can’t wait to get some of my freedom back. Both can be true.

    No amount of babysitting or exposition can truly show you show how relentless having kids is. Timing and planning will help alleviate that. But you are still one flu away from two weeks of hell. And that’s when your kids are healthy.




  • When my son was born, I had 3 months of parental leave.

    The first month was spent just recuperating from work and taking care of my first one. After the first month of sleeping better and not having the stress of work, I started esting a lot better and training and lost 50 pounds in 2 months because I had the time and energy to cook well.

    Over the last two years, I’ve gained back 30 pounds because my 2 years old doesn’t sleep and my job is stressful.

    So I feel what you said.




  • To be fair, the phone experience of increasingly more companies is just fucking terrible.

    Menus over menus. Trying to get to speak a person that isn’t from India is pretty fucking hard. You usually arrive at a voicemail and don’t know when you will hear from them.

    Might as well cut the bullshit and find a straight forward experience online instead.


  • My reason asking is because there are other scheme I feel are more adequate for non relational data, but this isn’t my domain and I barely dabbled in that, so that’s worth absolutely nothing.

    But your point about the data being used later makes a lot of sense and I didn’t think about that. Down the road, someone will ask you to create links to your data and if you already have a DB, then you don’t have to change the whole infrastructure to accommodate that. You can create new schemes and already have a somewhat functional access to it.

    Thanks for the input.