• southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    17 hours ago

    Being real though, that’s the point of going to a pro when you’re an incel.

    You get your dick wet, you realize that no matter how fun it is, that it doesn’t change a damn thing about you, or your life. Then you can STFU about it and actually live your life.

    Or, you know, just keep whining about things

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      They don’t just want sex. They want to be accepted by someone who desires them back. A prostitute isn’t going to provide that. Whether they are willing or able to make the changes necessary for that to happen is another issue.

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    17 hours ago

    To paraphrase CS Lewis, "Friendship Casual sex is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art. It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival.”

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      man, imagine thinking having friends has no survival value, if you didn’t know Lewis’ family was well off, this would make it obvious.

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      CS Lewis has never had to choose which travel companion to cannibalize during a mountaintop snow storm. Unless your acquaintances look particularly diseased, they’re usually the easiest choice. Friendship can save your life. Take that, you timeless fuck

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      14 hours ago

      Casual sex […] has no survival value

      I wonder how many people less of our species were on earth w/o casual sex. It doesn’t have survival value for one personally, though.

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        I have no education on this matter but I’m going to confidently say at least 1/8 of the planet. 1/5 of the western world, and asia, I’d say 1/3

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        Depends on what you count as casual sex. People grow emotionally more attached to friends with benefits than to strangers too and might help them in a tough situation over a stranger or mere acquaintance.