• lath@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    The screenshot is obviously wrong. People will make fun of anyone for anything, anywhere and anytime. Problem is the disagreement on what’s acceptable.

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    4 months ago

    I’ve definetly heard plenty of people making fun of or discriminating against others with dietary restrictions due to their religions. Hell I’ve also heard people making fun of others with lactose intolerance or celiac disease…

    We can and should strive for better, but sometimes people can just be terrible 🫤

  • criitz@reddthat.com
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    4 months ago

    Halal eaters and teetotalers don’t try to preach as and convert as often, perhaps?

    (I support vegans and I dont mock them, for the record.)

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      4 months ago

      Halal eaters do try to convert you, but to their religion, not their eating habits.

      They are also made fun of for that.

      People genuinely don’t like to be told what they are doing is wrong.

    • naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      4 months ago

      Why do people call it preaching?

      It’s baffling that “Hey maybe hamburgers aren’t worth kilometers of cows chained with their face in a feed trough. Arranged this way so that the only activity they can engage in is to gorge themselves on low quality feed frequently filled with bits of other cows (backfeeding). Maybe they like have feelings and deserve better than this followed by a dehydrated wait in a death line in some artificially lit temple to screams and blood and horror?”

      Is talked about in the same language as “Invisible sky person is deeply concerned about your masturbating habits and you are going to suffer for it!”

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        4 months ago

        Just curious, do you not see how that would frustrate someone who is not vegan? If your goal is to be confrontational, that little speech definitely hits the mark, but if you’re not, perhaps reflect on the preaching.

        Personally, eat what you want to eat. The more vegans and vegetarians around, the better those food choices will be for everyone.

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          4 months ago

          Why would it be frustrating? It is just true. There’s no personal attack there, I’m not calling someone anything. It’s just reality, if you eat hamburgers that is what happened to get it to your plate. If you don’t think cows have feelings it shouldn’t bother you, if you think cows have feelings but they don’t matter very much it shouldn’t bother you, if you do find it bothersome to think about but eat hamburgers that’s on you not me.

          Quite seriously, either you are ok with what you do or you are not. How is talking about it frustrating or confrontational?

          I don’t feel bad when I prune a tree, and if you talk about rows and rows of fruit trees being pruned and how they’re slathered in nutrients and watered heavily to produce fruit before a harvester violently shakes them I feel neither confronted nor frustrated. I have no reason to even slightly suspect that treatment is wrong. Surely if feedlots and slaughterhouses are morally good or neutral I would at worst seem vaguely silly.

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            4 months ago

            Ok, so I’m sure when you pick up your iPhone you’d love to have someone tell you how much abuse and suffering so many steps in the supply chain involve from the raw material harvesting, terrible working conditions to assemble them, etc.

            Just pointing out that what you are doing is the literal definition of preaching. Not sure why you are surprised.

  • BruceTwarzen@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    I was at my dad’s birthday last year and the meal was: sauerkraut, potatoes and an ABSURD amount of different meats. Like it was bizzare, even for someone who is used to people eat a lot of meat. It wasn’t even good (i guess) because it was all greasy and just too much. It wasn’t good looking or anything, it was just a lot and like half of it they threw away. At some point one of his alcoholic friends said loud: thank god there are no vegans here har har har. Are you so absorbed in your meat religion that… No, i still don’t know what the point was. But everyone found it very funny, so i guess it is.

  • sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 months ago

    I still remember fondly an occasion at a wedding when my friend group all got placed at the same table, and we were 90% veg with one couple who ate meat. They remarked on it, and we all spent the rest of the meal joking about how it felt to be the minority, and they had to field questions like, “If you were on a desert Island with only vegetables, what would you do?”

  • /home/pineapplelover@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    As a non vegan. I have the largest respect for you guys. Keep on living the good life. Maybe I can manage to hop over in the future.

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    4 months ago

    Being vegan doesn’t equate with being religious. I think that a part of the problem is that some vegans truly do base their entire identity around it and people find that annoying, like when atheists are surrounded by one friend who won’t shut up about god.

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    4 months ago

    yeah the hardest part of being vegan is interacting with non vegans. gotta love how the default response to veganism (you know that thing we do to try to better the planet and animal rights and shit) is to argue as if doing something about the issues you care about is a negative trait.

    mfs always got something to say and love attacking a thing that as far as i’m aware is proven to be better for personal health, the environment, your wallet, and animals.

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      4 months ago

      I am changing my diet, but I am not fully “there” yet.

      I have gotten a lot of traction by merely saying “today is not a meat day for me” when I order some things.

      It’s way easier to eat at a veg-forward restaurant, but those aren’t always available, and often the food is expensive.